my boyfriend is only a year older than me and i thought that he would want to go slower than he is now. somehow when we are alone i always "let my gaurd down" i guess you would say. its only been 2 months but we have done everything besides sex and oral.... i guess TMI?!?!?! now hes trying to take off my all my clothes before i was fine with it and now its all my clothes at the same time an im deffinately not ready for this (well okay fine ill admit it, he always asks if its okay before we do something new and i have said yes... or told him not yet so i guess ive let him). its just i dont want to have sex yet i dont love him an i know i could just not now. Ganyways what should i do? its hard to tell him i dont love him because i like him SO F***ING MUCH i would do almost anything for him an i dont want this to end! what should i tell him?

how about u try telling him that your not ready? or to slow down? there is nothing wrong with saying no

i tried that before but it didnt work. but apparently now he undersatands =] thanks

if that didnt work just get another 1