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Everyone has a boyfriend, why not me?
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mecka43 mecka43
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Posted: Dec/26/2008 09:38 PM report inappropriate content

Okay,
so I know I promised myself not to get a boyfriend 'till next year
but walking down the school hallways is so hard especcially with all those couples making out and holding hands.
Honestly,
I used to be the girl that always had a boyfriend,
(I'm not one of those girls.)
And now I just never seem to get one.
And my two best friends just hooked up,
could this get any worse?

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sophia_coco sophia_coco
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Posted: Dec/30/2009 05:39 AM report inappropriate content

You may have to wait until the right one comes along.From sounds of it you are in middle/high school so still have a lot of time to find one.Not having a boyfriend isn't the end of the world.Think of it this way have more time to spend with friends, do more things for yourself,and more time for school(something you need to focus on).

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mecka43 mecka43
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Posted: Dec/30/2009 10:44 AM report inappropriate content

sophia_coco wrote:

You may have to wait until the right one comes along.From sounds of it you are in middle/high school so still have a lot of time to find one.Not having a boyfriend isn't the end of the world.Think of it this way have more time to spend with friends, do more things for yourself,and more time for school(something you need to focus on).
I just started high school this year and I know I'm still you but honestly,
it would be nice,
and my two BEST FRIENDS just hooked up,
it kind of bothers me but what can I do.
Yeah, I guess your right,
I just have to wait for the right guy to come.

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icecharmz icecharmz
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Posted: Jan/03/2009 11:28 PM report inappropriate content

the guy for you is out there. when you find him it will be worth it coz you've waited for him. and maybe the reason that you haven't met him yet is that maybe 'destiny'/'fate' is still busy writing the best love story for you. (okay, that was cheesy lol)

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LyneaRenae LyneaRenae
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Posted: Jan/04/2009 01:17 AM report inappropriate content

well consider that there might be people out there that like you but you just haven't noticed yet. It happens a lot especially when you're watching for it...which sounds kind of odd and non-sensible but its true.

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mecka43 mecka43
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Posted: Jan/04/2009 12:20 PM report inappropriate content

Yeah,
I'm just so impatient to wait,
but I guess I should and the best will happen,
right?

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glow44 glow44
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Posted: Jun/01/2009 04:15 PM report inappropriate content

more like if u want it go get it

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girlnextdoor514 girlnextdoor514
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Posted: Jun/04/2009 06:36 PM report inappropriate content

Well there is no easy way to say this, but maybe it's just not the right time to have a boyfriend. When the time is right you will know and believe me you will like it a lot better than going around acting desperate. Let the guys come to you; not the other way around. Oh and don't just do what your friends are doing either. It might be fun in the moment, but in the end you will feel horrible.
Hope that helped some,
Message me!

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SexyAshley97 SexyAshley97
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Posted: Jun/07/2009 12:44 PM report inappropriate content

Hey Mecka43,
i hav a boyfriend and i know how you feel cause i used to be single and i hate it cause everytime you go by a couple it reminds you of how happy you used to be. And you want to be that happy again but you just cant seem to get that one guy back or even find a guy. And idk if it could get worse if i knew i would defanetly tell you. Well im ganna start replyin these boards alots now and if you want to you could always message me.

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SexyAshley97 SexyAshley97
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Posted: Jun/07/2009 12:47 PM report inappropriate content

mecka43 wrote:

Okay,
so I know I promised myself not to get a boyfriend 'till next year
but walking down the school hallways is so hard especcially with all those couples making out and holding hands.
Honestly,
I used to be the girl that always had a boyfriend,
(I'm not one of those girls.)
And now I just never seem to get one.
And my two best friends just hooked up,
could this get any worse?
Hey Mecka43,
i hav a boyfriend and i know how you feel cause i used to be single and i hate it cause everytime you go by a couple it reminds you of how happy you used to be. And you want to be that happy again but you just cant seem to get that one guy back or even find a guy. And idk if it could get worse if i knew i would defanetly tell you. Well im ganna start replyin these boards alots now and if you want to you could always message me

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SexyAshley97 SexyAshley97
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Posted: Jun/07/2009 12:48 PM report inappropriate content

Hey Mecka43,
i hav a boyfriend and i know how you feel cause i used to be single and i hate it cause everytime you go by a couple it reminds you of how happy you used to be. And you want to be that happy again but you just cant seem to get that one guy back or even find a guy. And idk if it could get worse if i knew i would defanetly tell you. Well im ganna start replyin these boards alots now and if you want to you could always message me


mecka43 wrote:

Okay,
so I know I promised myself not to get a boyfriend 'till next year
but walking down the school hallways is so hard especcially with all those couples making out and holding hands.
Honestly,
I used to be the girl that always had a boyfriend,
(I'm not one of those girls.)
And now I just never seem to get one.
And my two best friends just hooked up,
could this get any worse?

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annoyendude_06 annoyendude_06
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Posted: Jul/08/2009 06:36 PM report inappropriate content

i dont have a bf either, if it helpz...
id prefer not to get 1 coz im not gay but thats wasnt the point

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teddygeiger4589 teddygeiger4589
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Posted: Sep/07/2009 09:00 AM report inappropriate content

i dont have a boyfriend either...its really not horrible if you think about all the time you have to spend with friends and you dont have all that stupid drama that comes with relationships in ur life, yea i do wish that i had someone who would hold my hand or someone that would love me unconditionally, but if you wait, when the right guy comes along it will be so much more worth it. u have ur entire life ahead of u to find a guy, get married......u dont have to find one right now.....when the time is right it wil happen...for now just focus on ur life as it is......hope that helped......let me no....

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orangecrush10 orangecrush10
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Posted: Nov/18/2009 04:40 PM report inappropriate content

the right guy will come along one day

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