Okay, this isn't the place to vent about the attitudes of others. If other people's language or phrases are bothering you, disable the chat, ignore what they are saying, or report them using the handy-dandy button in the chat, or the Contact Us button on the bottom of the screen.
You shouldn't have to see other people doing good to do good yourself, and you shouldn't rely on the rest of the population to be 'good.' YOU have to set the 'good example' and teach people how to behave decently.
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